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I have tried peacocking myself when I heard that other guys were doing it. I did this maybe a couple times, just to see if it worked. I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally incongruent with my personality. Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know. I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred. At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club. This got me thinking...maybe it's not how much the clothes cost, or how flashy they are... I guess there is something else going on. Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things. The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her or make her like you. So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses. You shouldn't have to look like a pick up artist. It's better to dress reasonably, and not put too much thought into it. However, you don't want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can. This comes back to self-expression. You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool. Never change that. Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks. Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this. Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends. Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE. Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders. Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin. Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed. Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way. One other piece... Accessories should adhere off you loosely, and have a look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck." Make out for your intuition with this one. I don't want to say too much because that's a whole other topic. |
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